Freedom Rules, less restrivive rules.

Based on my life experience, of 52 years, here are some aspirational goals for a great life…

Rule #1: Stop putting so many rules on yourself. Life is inherently unpredictable, and we’re all spinning in space on a round ball, which is a tiny speck in the vast universe. When you recognize how insignificant many of your self-imposed limitations can be, you open yourself up to new possibilities and experiences. Allow yourself to explore what truly brings you joy. Remember, it’s okay to rethink your approach and challenge the norms you’ve set for yourself.

Rule #2: Take care of your health. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, prioritizing work, relationships, and responsibilities over our well-being. However, we all have 99 problems until we have a health problem, and then suddenly, our focus narrows to just one critical issue: our health. Prioritizing your physical, mental, and emotional health is essential. Develop routines that include regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and mindfulness practices. This foundation not only enhances your quality of life but also allows you to tackle all other aspects of life with greater clarity and energy.

Rule #3: Everything is a trade-off; choose wisely. Life is full of decisions that influence our paths, and each choice carries consequences, both immediate and distant. Have the presence of mind when making decisions to consider not just the short term, but the long term. This perspective is crucial — what seems like a beneficial choice today may not yield ideal results tomorrow. Consider your personal values, envision your goals, and understand how your choices will compound over time. Remember, every decision shapes the direction of your life, so make them with intent and awareness.

If you’re looking for a great book along these lines, check out The 4 Agreements, Author Don Miguel Ruiz.