Today, an attorney filed a divorce petition, symbolizing years of emotional exhaustion. Despite moving out five months ago, memories of conflict linger. Subtle criticisms during interactions reaffirmed the need for separation. While empathy remains, the author recognizes that peace, freedom, and respect are unattainable in a relationship marked by constant invalidation.
The Decision to Stay or Go
For years, I’ve been caught in an emotional whirlwind, wrestling with a deeply personal decision:Do I keep fighting for a marriage that’s carved painful and permanent scars? Or do I finally summon the courage to step away and reclaim my life? Writing this isn’t just therapeutic—it’s my reminder, my accountability, and maybe a lifeline to... Continue Reading →
The Quiet Damage: What Emotional and Verbal Abuse Really Does to You
For years, I didn’t realize I was being emotionally and verbally abused. There were no bruises, no screaming fights. Just constant tension, confusion, and the slow erosion of my sense of self. It was the perfect example of death by a 1000 cuts. Eye rolls, snapping of fingers, walking away, the criticism disguised as advice,... Continue Reading →
Escaping Abuse & Alcohol: How I Rebuilt My Life After a Decade of Struggle (2025)
Coming Back Stronger It’s been a long time since I’ve posted, and honestly, I wasn’t sure if I ever would again. But after everything I’ve been through, I know one thing for sure, I’m not the same person who started this blog two years ago. This past year has been hard, yes. But the truth... Continue Reading →