Today, an attorney filed a divorce petition, symbolizing years of emotional exhaustion. Despite moving out five months ago, memories of conflict linger. Subtle criticisms during interactions reaffirmed the need for separation. While empathy remains, the author recognizes that peace, freedom, and respect are unattainable in a relationship marked by constant invalidation.
Update from Hawaii: A Week of Reflection and the Need for a Final Decision
A week in Hawaii has forced me to slow down, step back, and face a decision I’ve been avoiding — whether to lean all the way in or finally let go. This trip isn’t about escape; it’s about ending the mental gymnastics and finding peace, one way or the other.